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As it so often happens with us, we have a gut feeling that we think is trying to tell us something. Do you have such a thing about your girlfriend? Do you think she might be not into you that much anymore? Or worse, she might be cheating on you with someone else? If these worries are gnawing at you, don’t worry. We have the perfect guide for you to help you find out if your girlfriend is cheating or not. It is not magic or anything like that, just a matter of looking for a few telltale signs.
When you fall in love with a special woman, you naturally never want to consider the scenario that she can ever cheat on you. However, that scenario might well come true, and you must deal with it when it happens. You must be able to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. So how do you do it? Check if your friends or her friends are feeling uncomfortable around you. This is a clear indicator that they might know about her affair. Also, when she goes out with friends, she does not tell you details and pretends she is unsure of where they will go, who will be there, and when she will be back.
When two people share their lives with each other as a couple, it often happens that one partner moves away from the other emotionally after some time. And the reasons for this moving away are not always easy to understand, even by the people concerned. One might argue that breaking up is cleaner, and then you can start over, but many people just take the easier way out by cheating and lying. How can you catch a cheating girlfriend? Notice if she is beginning to talk less about your future together. She will also use the word “we” less and less. This means she is viewing the future differently, and without you.
You might have been wondering for some time if your girlfriend has been cheating on you, but you can never know for sure. If asking her straight out is not an option, you must know these tips and tricks to catch your girlfriend cheating. And once you have caught her, you can confront her with the evidence. Take note if she always wants to do things alone. She might be doing them with her new man. Maybe she is not ready to put an end to the relationship and just testing the waters with a new person before she finally decides.
Does she look kind of distracted of late? Once upon a time when you got together, she was really attentive to you. And these days she hardly even looks at you. She is not paying attention to what you say, either. You have to say things over and over again. You cannot hold her in dialogue, and she barely speaks at all during a conversation. She is looking elsewhere at not at you when you are speaking. If she is showing these signs, your girlfriend might be having second thoughts about being together with you and having sex with someone else. She might not feel courageous enough to break up with you, and is just looking for a way to disconnect with you. It might even be a ploy to make you break up instead of her.
If your girlfriend is a simple jeans and t-shirt kind of a person with a plain ponytail, take note if she suddenly starts dressing up and getting elaborate hairstyles. It means she is putting effort into her nights out with someone else. She is out to impress a new person in her life, and it is for them that she wants to look good. Also, note if she does not ask you out when she is going out with her friends. She wants to go alone and insists that you stay at home. This could indicate that her friends are in the know. They are aware something is going on and hence may be stiff around you.
Is she always glued to her phone? Is she always texting, and does she smile when reading her texts? These might be sure signs that she is conversing with her new love interest. If she is paying more attention to her phone than she is paying to you, you might be history in her mind. She is not interested in you anymore and prefers talking to her new friend, who she finds more attractive. Also, she may be hiding things on her phone from you. She may even have password-protected her phone, which used to be unprotected before.
If your girlfriend suddenly starts guarding her phone and laptop as like her life depended on it, taking the phone with her to the bathroom too, and maybe deleting stuff as well, be careful. These may be signs of cheating. If you raise these questions, she may act deeply insulted and defensive and just say she was updating her profile picture. Take notice of these small signs. These may lead you onto the big game – an affair with a new man.
You have started having less and less sex of late. Your girlfriend is simply not interested in sex anymore. She might even act in bed as if she is turned off by you. These are sure signs that she is cheating on you with someone else. On the other hand, it might be that her sex drive has suddenly gone up noticeably. What we mean is a change from her usual pattern. For example, if you wanted to cuddle a lot before and now suddenly she does not want to anymore, that is a change in pattern.
There are ups and downs in every relationship, but if you have a feeling that she is not wanting to be close to you and distancing herself from you, there may be a reason. You could always ask her if there is a problem, but do not count on her being honest with you. If she is having an affair and cheating on you with a new man, she will be evasive in her answer. She might also not want to talk about it, and on top of it also get angry that you mentioned the subject at all.
As we mentioned earlier, the gut feeling is very important. But make sure that it is not your innate jealousy that is masquerading as a gut feeling. It might throw you completely off track. Put trust as a priority, but never overlook the warning signs. These will help you catch a cheating spouse. For example, she may be acting out of character, decking up and putting on a lot of makeup, and generally trying to look good when going out at specific times. These may be signs she is going to meet a lover. Marriage tends to get weary for some people after some time, so cheating or finding romance or sex on the side becomes a necessity for some people. Stay alert and catch your cheating spouse so that she does not continue making a fool of you.
Honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship. Lying and cheating is an absolute no-no, and these things, done by any of the partners, could kill the relationship or damage it beyond repair. And after it has been done, that person may not be able to fix it again. So if you think there is an issue, it is always best to try and work things out between the two of you before things get out of hand.