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Let’s start out by dispelling some of the myths that come to mind regarding using texts as a method of making women interested in dates, sex, and more. For one thing, some people think that sending a picture of themselves, usually a specific part of them, will make a woman more likely to engage with them. However, that is definitely not the case. In fact, sources say that women are less likely to talk to you after sending them that picture.
Moreover, if you think about some of the things that women find sexiest - it’s books. Think about some of the famous adaptations of books into movies that women loved. These same ideas apply to the notion of sexy text messages. Women like when you put time and detail into messages, giving them a simmering burn into romance and sexuality rather than just laying it all out to start.
So, text messages are not only something that women like; they’re something that women almost need to have if they are going to think of you in a romantic way. With that being said, let’s take a look at some of the things that you should do when you’re considering texting these women in a naughty manner.
The one thing you need to get out of your mind when thinking about sending a text to a woman - is that she doesn’t want to see any part of your body below the waist to start. So, with that being out of the way, here are some ways that you can approach women for these sorts of interactions.
For starters, when sending messages, don’t be afraid to turn up the heat early on. Remember, a good story to women that like naughty books has its first hot scene in the first twenty pages. That’s not to say you should lead with you wondering how she looks in a cute nightie, but you should definitely think about dropping some hints that you find her more attractive than a friend. Another issue that men tend to forget about when sending hot messages is not having any fun. Don’t worry about things being too serious for you. Instead, take time to laugh at the mistakes you make while texting her. In the same line of thought, if you do mess up when you’re sending hot texts, like misspelling her name, make sure you apologize and then move forward. Don’t let the awkwardness sit there in a message left on “read.” Take the initiative in that situation and all others.
Finally, a good practice is to make sure you have something to say to her other than the word “hi” when you’re trying to start a serious text conversation. Asking how her hair looks or something about her clothes is a surefire way to talk about other parts of her body that you’ll both find more interesting.
There are many things that you should not do when you’re talking with a woman via text if you’re trying to turn her on. For example, if she messages you, then don’t let her send you many unanswered texts in a row. After all, that will come off like you’re ignoring her. If you’re not going to show her the hot texts and attention she needs, then you can bet that another man will do it for you.
Another thing you have to do with hot texts is to know when to quit. Sometimes, the ladies just don’t want to have a guy tell them that they’re going to take their panties off with their teeth. If she’s not in the mood for sexy messages, then you need to put a stop to it and have better luck next time.
Last but not least, make sure you leave the emojis out of the texts. No woman in her right mind wants to see the “laughing until you cry” or “eggplant” emojis in a text asking her what color panties she is wearing that day. Not only is it childish, but it makes you look immature.
Now that you know what to do and what to avoid, we can help you create some sample texts that are bound to turn her on and get her in the mood for you.
These are just some of the samples of texts that you can send, but the real good texts are the ones that you can personalize for your partner. That way, she knows that you are thinking about her specifically and don’t just send the same messages to a whole lot of other women. That being said, you are going to have to experiment a little to be successful with this endeavor. While some people think that texting is not the best way to build connections between a male and a female, it’s clear that it is not the case. Text messages are a great way to build tension, have some fun, and show what you’re interested in without telling. It’s much better than sending her private pictures that will send her running for the hills. By following this list of do’s and don’ts along with the samples, you will have a great chance to make a woman fall in love with the way that you message her. Remember, though, practice is a key element to performing better at this, too.