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It seems that the longer you are in a relationship, the more routine takes the place of adventures and spontaneity. Which can, for lack of a better word, turn the relationship into a boring routine. Every now and then, you and your partner must do something that reminds you why you began the relationship, to begin with. Finding the right mixture of play and sexiness can turn up the heat in your relationship quickly. We are going to clue you into a few games that will help to rev your love life back up the way you intended it to be.
Every time somebody falls, they have to remove a layer of clothing until there are no clothes left to remove.
Each of you will write down fantasies you have yet to share with your partner, be it having sex in a certain part of the house or trying out a new position. Put the slips of paper into the hat, then take turns unfolding them, one by one. And then execute the fantasy.
Reach into the bag. Whichever prop you grab, is a role play fantasy you have to act out.
Pick a time interval — 20 minutes, let's say. For whatever interval you choose, tease each other with kissing, touching, and other forms of foreplay. But no matter what, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed.
Blindfold him. Lead him to the bed or other locale. Then proceed to ravish him — slowly, recklessly, teasingly — however, you feel like doing it. You call the shots. Let his arousal be your guide.
He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you.
Tell your partner all the things you did wrong today. Then kneel on the bed. Your man spanks you using his hand or a hairbrush or a not-too-scary disciplinary accessory.
Spread your towel on the bed or carpet and grease each other up with massage oil — legs, torso, breasts, everywhere. Now roll around for a while and then get it on.
Your partner shaves your pubic hair. First, take a hot bath to soften your skin and hair. Second, use scissors to trim the length. Third, lie on the bed or on a table and let that shaving expert, your mate, foam you up and shave you. It's scary at first, but if they’re gentle you will not get nicked. They can shave everything or just neaten you up.
If you'd like to get the action started with a board game, try one that you find on the Internet.
Give each suit a sexy meaning: hearts represent kissing, diamonds equal a massage, clubs signify hands-on stimulation, and spades are oral. The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. Take turns picking cards and teasing one another.
Use this as an opportunity to learn more about your guy and try your craziest sex fantasies. Take turns playing the classic game, making sure your requests really reveal what you want.
Try engaging in an intense tickle war or a naked pillow fight. The one to surrender first has to perform a sexual favor for the winner.
Have your dude either lie back or kneel with his eyes closed and mouth open. Then tease him by placing different parts of your body against his lips or tongue, like a nipple or finger, encouraging him to please you. Then you can switch places.
Plant little drops of honey on parts of your body that you want your partner to kiss. You could draw a little treasure map toward your underwear, or use the sticky markers to note erogenous zones he hasn't explored yet, like your toes or collar bone.
Kneel in front of your guy while he's standing or lying back on the edge of the bed. Give him a blow job where you alternate between hot and cold by taking sips of the icy cold or steaming hot liquid, swishing it around your mouth and swallowing, then going down on him again.
Get naked, lie on your bed, and close your eyes. Have your partner try to make you come using just that gentle prop — teasing over your breasts, hips, inner arms, and other super sensitive parts.
Put all your favorite sex toys in a large bag. One of you will put a blindfold on, reach in, and grab that sex toy. That's the toy you have to use for foreplay that evening.
Assign each value a certain sexual act and write it down so that you won't forget. Maybe one is that he rubs his genitals or hands against your breasts, and another is that he goes down on you. The game isn't over until you've gotten through all 12.
There is no real guide on how to spice up your bedroom life. It really is up to what you and your partner enjoy doing together, and whatever that is should be the basis of what helps you to get that spark back in the bedroom. Taking your time to relearn what makes you happy as a couple in the bedroom can open the doors to another level of intimacy. Enjoy your time together, especially playing one of the many games that we listed here for you to play. It's a fun mixture of stripping, bondage, and many other erotic games that will turn up the heat in no time.