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If you have always wanted to be a dominatrix in bed but did not know how to go about it, read on for our tips and tricks. Maybe you and your partner want to take your sexual experience up a notch and introduce some BDSM role play. In that case, being a dominatrix may be the perfect thing that will bring out the sexy beauty in you. You will be able to satisfy yourself and your partner in a way you never thought you could. Learning how to be a dominatrix is easy. All you have to do is arouse your inner dominatrix that is there in every woman. Set her free, and let her play.
Have you ever felt like you would want to learn more about BDSM – bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism role plays? If you answered a yes to that, then you are at the right place. We are going to talk about BDSM and dominatrixes here. In case you did not know, a dominatrix is a woman who plays the dominant part in a BDSM role play. Many will not admit it and come right out, but they want a controlling, dominant sexual partner. It is one of their favorite sexual fantasies, more so if they have a shy or reserved partner in bed. A dominatrix can be a very exciting partner to have in bed, and people who like this kind of thing would be happy to get a dominatrix in bed. If you want to be a dominatrix, you have to learn how to be dominating and make a situation about yourself.
A sexual scenario essentially involves one dominant and one submissive partner, even if they themselves are not aware of their selves as such. A dominatrix is a leading partner in the bedroom. She keeps you on your toes, and you never know what is going to come next. This is really exciting for some people. They like their sex life to feel thrilling and dangerous, and they are not willing to settle for plain old vanilla sex. If you are a dominatrix, you get to have a submissive partner who completely obeys you and agrees to all your wishes and rules. Being a dominatrix keeps you in total control of the sexual relationship. In order to learn how to be a good dominatrix, a good idea would be to request a professional dominatrix to guide or mentor you. That way, you get to learn all the secrets of the art.
Do you want to learn how to be a good dominatrix? It can be easy if you get the hang of it. However, you must learn to be responsible, first of all. After all, you are the one dominating the sex play. So you need to be self-assured and confident, and also have to know how to assert yourself. Be confident in your verbal communication. Traditionally, dominatrixes have been visualized as women wearing black leather and high pointed heels, and also wielding a whip. This is an image many men find absolutely arousing, and it turns them on, the thought of being dominated in bed by such a woman. If you can learn to be a good dominatrix, your man will turn into your crazy worshipper and prefer you over everything else.
A dominatrix knows that pleasure and pain are intermingled. This is one of the first lessons of being a dominatrix. Mixing pleasure and pain and making them complement each other can take your sexual pleasure to greater heights. Talking like a dominatrix is all about knowing how you can assert your sexuality in a way that is both physical and psychological. This can be verbal, as well as sexual. Talking like a dominatrix is an art that is worth learning. Speak in a demanding tone, as if you expect to be obeyed. Speak confidently. It might take you a little practice, but you soon will get good at it. However, at the same time, you have to stay alert to your submissive partner’s state of mind and body. Always keep safety in mind. Decide together on a safe word. This is an important lesson in being a dominatrix. Practice your act so that your role play is impeccable.
In bed, a dominatrix is expected to inflict pain. But surprisingly, that pain gives rise to arousal. And sexual pleasure peaks till it is almost painful. This is the paradox of being a dominatrix in bed. You have to know how to accomplish this. Getting well conversant with the BDSM culture is a basic necessity of learning to become a dominatrix. Popular media has a whole gamut of dominatrix characters to help you get the idea of the persona. Wear a bustier or a corset. It is part and parcel of the dominatrix look.
Being a great dominatrix means playing out the right ideas when you are into sexual role play. Get the right dresses and props that would instantly transform your sexual experience. There are a whole lot of online as well as offline shops that sell BDSM props. Choose the ones you like and take your time picking the ones that interest you. Be assertive and controlling because that is what your submissive partner wants you to be. Tell him to call you by the name of Lady or Ma’am and bow down to you because you are here to be worshipped, and devotion is a prerequisite.
When you are playing the role of a dominatrix, you are the one who gets to set the rules, and your submissive partner must obey you and conform to your rules all the time. Just make sure he is not uncomfortable or in pain. This is the true power of being a dominatrix. Sometimes, you can skip binding up or gagging your partner and just tell them instead that they are not permitted to make any sound at all, which adds to the pleasure. Play out any fantasy that you and your partner may have in mind. Believe it true, and play your role to the hilt. Your dress and attitude will be a big part of your dominatrix role play.
A good dominatrix is instantly recognizable by her dress, and her choice of dress sets her apart from the ordinary or aspiring dominatrix. Her dress screams to the world that she is in control, and submissives love that attitude. High heels are a must, for they add to the sexy persona of the dominatrix. Buy some latex and some leather, and some silk for the bondage activities. You can also wear a mask if you want to add to the thrill. Try on a full-bodied catsuit if you truly want to look the part. If it is black, that is all the better. Black lingerie will also work if you don’t have access to a catsuit. A good idea would be to ask your partner what he wants you to wear. Playing out a fantasy might be all the more pleasurable that way.
A professional dominatrix is only a dominatrix that is really good at what she does, so much so that people are willing to pay her for her skills. In order for you to become a professional dominatrix, you must practice your art on many, many people who will be there as your submissive. You must have experience with both sexes because you will be hired as a professional by both sexes, so the experience is truly a necessity. A professional dominatrix exudes an aura of sexual domination, so that inherent submissives are attracted intensely to her. They want to pay her in order to get her to pleasure them.
A dominatrix is a fantasy many men adore and many women yearn to achieve. If you want to be a dominatrix, you can be one right now, if you are adventurous enough. All you need is some good attire, some great accessories, a sexy and commanding vocabulary, and a whole cartload of attitude.
